Moving on

I’ve been able to put all the things that have happened behind me and have learned a valuable lesson which is I can’t let things escalate and try to deal with things on my own all the time - sometimes it helps to chat with someone or get out and have a clear head about things. I had some great advice from various people in the past few weeks and finally reached the stage where I think I can move on from where I was - even to the point of realising I’d just let things go too far and it wasn’t necessary.

It’s time to make a new start I think and try new things, but also realise there are things I can’t do anymore either - but the main thing is to look at the positive instead of focusing on the negative, and that is something I’m finding easier and easier every day - I’ve not been so down before and can see where I’d went wrong, I’d let some things I hadn’t dealt with from the past catch up with me - I’d supressed a lot of things and forgot all the good times I’ve had and this is giving me a lot of strength and new found confidence - I feel like I could achieve anything I put my mind to and that’s a major change.

I have managed to get out more and have been invited to more events and just gone out somewhere and found I don’t need to do that all the time, just needed to realise what is important in life and focus on that - I’ve got my work life pretty much sorted and there are even more choices there if I did want a change, but my personal life has been neglected for too long, I’m enjoying getting out more but aren’t overdoing it, just taking things easy and making sure I don’t miss any opportunities.

There’s a few things I have in mind to help in this area, some of which I’ve done already and others I’ve just put into practice and hopefully will be able to take advantage of the things I have gained recently - I don’t think there is a better time to make a really big change in my life and that’s basically what I’m doing, hopefully will be able to be more focused and positive in future and add the things that have been missing from my life for too long and in that way I will be moving on.